There is no easy breakup, unless all these times you really have not loved the person you’ve had a relationship with. Yet, the degree of breaking up as well as the reasons behind its occurrence can vary. There are those who break up simply because the feeling is gone. Yet, sad to say, there are really those who hurt each other with unkind words and end up with a very painful goodbye. More often than not, such kind of breakup is triggered by a spur of the moment decision or deciding at the top of one’s emotion.
Well, if you can relate with this painful type of goodbye, you must feel anger more than sadness as of this moment. If you have come to the point of hating each other before you’ve left him, maybe the chance of reconciliation is very slim. However, what if you have also come to the point that you have realized that you want to know how to get your ex back? What if you weren’t really mad and you know that it was all your fault? Can you still find ways on how to make him want you back?
As always, regret comes when everything is over. Yet, you still have to face your situation with courage and pursue what you want. Now, that you have cleared your mind and toned down your anger, it is easier for you to make the right decisions. It may take time, but you will surely get to it; and if it does come to this point, don’t hesitate to setup a conversation, and clear things out.
If possible, try to dig into the real root of all your problems. Don’t hesitate to say how bad you’ve felt during those times. Of course, you must also not shy in saying that after all, you still love him and you can’t let him go. By doing this, the conversation is over, and you can get back to a more peaceful and loving relationship.